Fewer topics are as culturally divisive as spankings. If you are black, you probably call the act of disciplining a child with corporal punishment "a whupping." ...The complainer (Schandelmeier-Bartels) was fired, and then won a federal lawsuit.
Schandelmeier-Bartels claimed that after she complained, an African-American program coordinator told her "It's a black thing: We beat our children."
Later, when she took the matter to Andrea Adams, her supervisor, she was again told: "This is how we discipline our children in our culture." ...
For those of you who don't know, a "bathroom whupping" usually happens after a child has acted out repeatedly in school or in public. In this case, the 6-year-old boy had gotten five write-ups for bad behavior during the summer program. A phone call was made to his mother, and his aunt picked him up.
The aunt asked Schandelmeier-Bartels "where the bathroom was."
When she returned to where she left the boy and his aunt, Schandelmeier-Bartels said she heard "Whack" "Ow" "Whack" "Ow" "Whack" "Ow" several times, according to the suit. She reported what she considered abuse to the state and the police.
The next day, the boy's aunt complained to Andrea Adams, the supervisor at the cultural center.
Schandelmeier-Bartels said her supervisor "yelled at" her, and told her to get out of her sight.
"Just because you don't beat your child doesn't mean she can't beat hers," Schandelmeier-Bartels said she was told. "Who are you to tell her how to raise her child?"
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Getting a bathroom whupping
A Chicago newspaper reports: