Dear Margo: ... Is there something I might say when people (uninvited) tell me that my sexuality is all a matter of my choosing and deciding? — MichelangeloThe trouble with these questions is that people have answers for them. Try asking them yourself. Many people will recite vividly the instant and circumstances in which they decided to be straight. They saw or did something that made a very strong impression.
Dear Mike: I, like you, have about had it with people who have "decided" that homosexuality is a choice or an "alternative lifestyle." This thinking is flat-out ignorant of both science and human nature. I think a fairly gentle way to make your point would be to ask, "So tell me. How old were you when you decided to be straight?" Or: "Can you imagine there's anything that could turn you into a homosexual?"
It is also known that normally heterosexual people will sometimes behave homosexually under some circumstances, such as in prison or some other single-sex environment. That is what Kinsey and others have said.
The science blogs are all celebrating the end of Don't ask, don't tell, but they do not cite any scientific evidence either. AP says:
With an end to the ban, "no longer will our nation be denied the service of thousands of patriotic Americans forced to leave the military, despite years of exemplary performance, because they happen to be gay," Obama said in a statement. "And no longer will many thousands more be asked to live a lie in order to serve the country they love."No, they are not asked to lie. The whole point of the DADT policy was not to ask them to lie.
Also, another AP story says:
Gay rights activists say the complications and uncertainties are being overblown.Here is the real hazard of the new policy. Family newspapers are now printing stories quoting gay activists talking about "being overblown" and "suspending all gay discharges". I miss DADT already.
"Only three steps are needed to assure a smooth and quick transition to open gay service," Belkin said. They are: an immediate executive order from Obama suspending all gay discharges; a few weeks to put new regulations in place; then immediate certification to Congress that the new law will work.
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I read in a 2005 book, that was back then marketed and praised among conservatives, homosexuality is caused by sexual abuse in childhood.
The trauma of the abuse disturbs sexual orientation. If the trauma is overcome, the sexuality switches back to straight. Should the memory come back, so the traumatized falls back into homosexuality. That`s why - it may be concluded - some homosexuals switch their orientation out and back.
(Chapter I "The Marketing Blitz"; second last Subchapter "We Forgot One Thing, pages 31 to 36)
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