Dear Amy: My boyfriend and I were watching my 5-year-old niece. She came to me and told me that my boyfriend said he was going to punch her in the nose. I know that when my boyfriend is playing with the kids he plays around and says things, but he is adamant that he didn't say that.Amy's advice justifies the boyfriend's paranoia. If adults are going to automatically believe the false and petty accusations of a 5-year-old with an overactive imagination, then he has good reason to be cautious.
I spoke with my niece's parents, and we chalked it up as a misunderstanding.
But now my boyfriend does not want her playing with him, and he refuses to watch her unless someone is with him every minute.
He is in law enforcement and says he sees things like this all the time, ...
Amy says: Most of what young children say has some basis in reality. ... this incident highlights his own immaturity.
I do agree with him about this one thing, however: He should not be alone with your niece because he can't be trusted to treat her well.
Update: Amy Dickinson is also criticized by Glenn Sacks.