The horror of lesbian rape

This story is from a lesbian magazine:

My own first sexual experience with another woman was rape. Like many women, I didn’t know that women could rape other women. It wasn’t until I recounted the incident to a friend and she said, “So you were raped?” that I truly recognized this is what it was. ...

But each subsequent time she stayed at my house, the same scenario played out: She waited until I was asleep and then began having sex with me. It was years before I could acknowledge this was rape.

Weird. It might be a few more years before she convinces anyone. When you hear a woman claim that she was raped, it could be something like this.